What is the most popular first dance song in 2025?

According to The Knot's survey of nearly 17,000 couples, 'Can't Help Falling in Love' by Elvis Presley has overtaken Ed Sheeran's 'Perfect' as the most popular first dance song. The resurgence is partly attributed to recent Elvis films. Other top choices include 'Perfect' by Ed Sheeran, 'All of Me' by John Legend, and 'Lover' by Taylor Swift.

How long should a first dance song be?

Most couples dance for 2-3 minutes. If your chosen song is longer (many ballads run 4-5 minutes), ask your DJ to create an edited version that fades out naturally around the 2.5-3 minute mark. This keeps the moment special without feeling like it drags on.

When should the first dance happen at the reception?

Traditionally, the first dance happens right after the couple's grand entrance. However, many couples now choose to do it after dinner and speeches, which allows guests to settle in and creates a natural transition to the dance portion of the evening. Either timing works well.

Do we need dance lessons for our first dance?

Not necessarily. A simple slow dance with basic swaying works perfectly well and feels natural. However, if you want to incorporate specific moves, a dip, or a lift, even 2-3 lessons can make a significant difference in your confidence. The key is choosing something you'll both feel comfortable with on the day.

Can we have an upbeat first dance song?

Absolutely! There's no rule saying your first dance must be a slow ballad. Many couples choose upbeat songs that reflect their personality and get the party started immediately. You can also do a mashup that starts slow and transitions into something energetic, inviting guests to join you on the floor.

Best First Dance Songs 2025: 50 Ideas from Timeless to Trending

By DJ Stefan • Updated February 2025 • 10 min read

Your first dance is one of those wedding moments that stays with you forever. Years from now, you'll hear that song and instantly be transported back to that dancefloor, surrounded by the people you love most.

No pressure, right?

The good news is there's no wrong answer. Whether you choose a timeless classic your grandparents would recognise or a contemporary hit that's uniquely yours, the best first dance song is simply one that means something to both of you.

I've compiled 50 first dance songs for 2025 based on what's trending at weddings I've worked, industry data from wedding professionals, and timeless choices that never go out of style. Let's find yours.

What's Trending in 2025

2025 First Dance Trends

Elvis is back: "Can't Help Falling in Love" has overtaken Ed Sheeran's "Perfect" as the #1 most requested first dance song, partly thanks to recent Elvis films
Country crossover: Artists like Chris Stapleton and Dan + Shay are increasingly popular, even outside traditionally country-loving crowds
Instrumental covers: String quartet versions of modern hits (Vitamin String Quartet covering Taylor Swift, for example) are having a moment
The mashup: More couples are starting slow and transitioning to an upbeat song partway through, inviting guests to join

Sources: The Knot Real Weddings Study (17,000 couples surveyed), Gabbinbar Homestead, Function Central

Top 10 Most Requested First Dance Songs

Based on industry data and requests I receive at Gippsland weddings, these are the songs couples are choosing most often in 2025:

The Current Top 10

Can't Help Falling in Love — Elvis Presley

The #1 choice for 2025. Also beautiful in covers by Haley Reinhart or Kina Grannis.
Perfect — Ed Sheeran

Still a powerhouse. The duet version with Beyoncé adds extra drama.
All of Me — John Legend

One of the most requested songs of the last decade. Timeless lyrics.
At Last — Etta James

Sweeping, dramatic, and absolutely classic. Grammy Hall of Fame inductee.
Lover (First Dance Remix) — Taylor Swift

The remix has slower tempo and orchestral backing designed for weddings.
A Thousand Years — Christina Perri

Cinematic and romantic. Consider fading at 3 mins as the full version is nearly 5.
Thinking Out Loud — Ed Sheeran

"Loving you 'til we're seventy" — hard to beat those lyrics for a wedding.
Make You Feel My Love — Adele

Adele's cover of the Bob Dylan classic. Soul-stirring and deeply romantic.
Speechless — Dan + Shay

Country crossover hit with a beautiful slow waltz tempo.
Joy of My Life — Chris Stapleton

Rising fast in 2025. Emotional, heartfelt, and perfect for couples who love country.

Sources: The Knot, TSG Weddings, Encore Events

Timeless Classics That Never Fail

Some songs have been filling wedding dancefloors for decades. If you want something your grandparents will recognise and your friends will love, these are safe bets:

Timeless Classics

The Way You Look Tonight — Frank Sinatra
Unchained Melody — The Righteous Brothers
What a Wonderful World — Louis Armstrong
Fly Me to the Moon — Frank Sinatra
Can't Take My Eyes Off You — Frankie Valli
Stand By Me — Ben E. King
Let's Stay Together — Al Green
Your Song — Elton John
Wonderful Tonight — Eric Clapton
The First Time Ever I Saw Your Face — Roberta Flack

Modern Romantic Ballads

Contemporary songs that feel romantic without being over-the-top. These are popular with couples who want something current but still elegant:

Modern Ballads

Beyond — Leon Bridges

Smooth, soulful, and gaining traction in 2025. A bit unexpected.
I Get to Love You — Ruelle

Cinematic and powerful. Feels custom-made for weddings.
You Are the Reason — Calum Scott & Leona Lewis

Beautiful duet that builds emotionally.
Tenerife Sea — Ed Sheeran

A deeper cut from Ed. Soft, emotional, less overplayed than his big hits.
Turning Page — Sleeping at Last

Delicate and cinematic. Featured in Twilight.
Best Part — Daniel Caesar ft. H.E.R.

Smooth R&B feel. Modern and romantic.
Ordinary — Alex Warren

Fresh choice for 2025. Celebrates everyday romance.
Forever Like That — Ben Rector

Sweet and uplifting. Works beautifully for outdoor weddings.

Sources: MAC Events, Encore Events

Country & Folk Favourites

Country artists are increasingly crossing over into mainstream wedding playlists. These songs work even if you're not a hardcore country fan:

Country & Folk

Die a Happy Man — Thomas Rhett
From the Ground Up — Dan + Shay
Marry Me — Train

Written specifically for weddings. Simple, sincere, easy to sway to.
I Cross My Heart — George Strait
Lucky — Jason Mraz & Colbie Caillat

Light, joyful duet. More upbeat than most first dance songs.
Tennessee Whiskey — Chris Stapleton
Life With You — The Proclaimers
Ho Hey — The Lumineers

Folk-pop with energy. Good for couples who want something upbeat.

Unique & Unexpected Choices

Want something that hasn't been played at every wedding? These songs are meaningful without being overdone:

Hidden Gems

Sea of Love — Cat Power

Beautiful modern cover of a 1959 classic.
Simply the Best — Noah Reid

The stripped-back version from Schitt's Creek. Surprisingly emotional.
Better Together — Jack Johnson

Relaxed and joyful. Perfect for beach or backyard weddings.
Harvest Moon — Neil Young
First Day of My Life — Bright Eyes

Indie classic. Quietly romantic.
XO — Beyoncé

Upbeat but still romantic. Great energy starter.
Such Great Heights — Iron & Wine

The acoustic cover version is beautifully intimate.
You and Me — Lifehouse

Source: MAC Events

Australian Artists

If you want to keep it local, these Australian songs work beautifully for a first dance:

Aussie First Dance Songs

Better Be Home Soon — Crowded House
To Her Door — Paul Kelly
Flame Trees — Cold Chisel
You're the Voice — John Farnham

More upbeat, but an absolute crowd-pleaser.
Into My Arms — Nick Cave

Hauntingly beautiful. For couples who want something different.
Don't Dream It's Over — Crowded House

Source: Wedded Wonderland

How to Choose Your Song

With fifty options above, how do you actually decide? Here's my approach after hundreds of weddings:

Start with Your Story

What songs have been part of your relationship? The one playing during your first road trip together, the song that was on when you got engaged, or the track you've danced to barefoot in the kitchen at 2am — those songs often make the most meaningful choices because they're already yours.

Consider the Vibe

Do you want your first dance to feel slow and intimate, or upbeat and celebratory? There's no wrong answer. Some couples want a quiet, romantic moment. Others want to get the party started. Your song choice sets that tone.

Think About Comfort

If neither of you are confident dancers, choose something with a simple rhythm you can sway to. If you're planning choreography, pick something with a clear structure and tempo. The goal is to feel comfortable, not stressed.

Listen to the Lyrics

Some songs that sound romantic have surprisingly dark or inappropriate lyrics when you pay attention. Listen to the whole song and make sure the words actually fit the moment.

DJ Tip: Consider a Mashup

One of the most memorable first dance approaches I've seen is starting with a slow, romantic song for the first 90 seconds, then seamlessly transitioning into something upbeat and inviting all your guests to join you on the floor. It gives you the intimate moment and kicks off the party in one.

Practical First Dance Tips

Song Length

Most couples dance for 2-3 minutes. If your song runs longer (many ballads are 4-5 minutes), ask your DJ to create an edited version. There's nothing worse than a first dance that overstays its welcome.

When to Dance

Traditionally, the first dance happens right after your grand entrance. However, many couples now choose to do it after dinner and speeches — this gives guests time to settle in and creates a natural transition to dancing. Either timing works well.

Dance Lessons

You don't need them for a simple slow dance. But if you want to incorporate a dip, a spin, or any specific moves, even 2-3 lessons can make a significant difference in your confidence. The key is choosing something you'll both feel comfortable with on the day.

Tell Your DJ

Let your DJ know your song choice well in advance, including which version you want (original, acoustic, remix, specific cover). We can also edit the length, suggest custom intros, and coordinate with your photographer to make sure the moment is captured perfectly.

For more on working with your DJ to plan your reception timeline, see my Wedding Reception Timeline Guide.

The Bottom Line

Your first dance isn't about choosing the "right" song. It's about choosing your song.

Whether that's a timeless classic like "Can't Help Falling in Love," a modern ballad like "Perfect," or something completely unexpected that only you two understand — the best choice is always the one that feels meaningful to your relationship.

Years from now, when that song comes on the radio, you'll be right back on that dancefloor. Make it count.

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